The same thing happens in life. We set goals and make plans - and sometimes discover that we're on "the wrong train."

Bi-vinat ha-lave literally means "understanding the heart." The heart is the seat of emotions. We say: "My heart is heavy, my heart is lifted, my heart is broken," etc. To understand your heart is to understand your true inner self.

Many people go through life making assumptions about who they are. They never take time to "meet" themselves. Don't be afraid of discovering that the "real you" may be different than the "current you."

Often a crisis hits at midlife when people ask: "What's my life about? Is this all worth it?" We've heard stories of people who suddenly change direction, quitting their job and getting divorced. You know, like the successful doctor who decides he never wanted to go into medicine in the first place -- so he drops it and becomes an artist.

Knowing yourself is the essence of being alive. If you don't know yourself, you are not living. If you don't know what makes you tick, you're a robot, a puppet, a zombie.

So don't wait for a crisis. Life is too short to take wrong trains.

GETTING STARTED

Think of someone you'd be fascinated to meet, someone you'd really like to find out what makes him tick.

Now realize the most fascinating person you could ever meet is ... yourself.

Sit down, say hello, and introduce yourself to yourself. Become familiar with yourself as if you'd just met a long-lost cousin. Interview yourself. Ask questions about your life and the direction you're going. Search out your dreams -- both the ones you're fulfilling and the ones you've pushed to the back of your mind.

Get down to basics. You want to be rich. You want to be famous. You want to be good. You want to accomplish. You want meaning. You want to be creative. But why do you want all this? What's driving you? What you really want out of life?

The process of self-discovery involves asking a series of questions, always probing deeper until the underlying truth emerges. Ask yourself 10 questions that you would ask an intimate friend. Then wait for answers. Don't worry, no one is going to poke fun at you.

1. What is the purpose of life?
2. What is my goal in life?
3. Why did I choose this career?
4. How do I spend my spare time?
5. What is my motivation for doing what I do?
6. What really makes me happy?
7. Am I as happy as I want to be?
8. Is it more important to be rich or to be happy?
9. What are my future plans? Why?
10. What are my secret dreams and ambitions?

Don't be surprised if the answers aren't immediate. This process can take many months. Stick with it and find out what makes you tick. The answers are hiding in there. After all, you have a fascinating partner.

Finally, the most important question to ask is:

"What am I living for?"

It sounds like a simple question, but many are embarrassed to ask it. A voice inside us says, "Nah, why ask such a basic question?" We're resistant because we know this requires a lot of difficult soul-searching. And when you thoroughly know yourself, then you have changed. You've changed your relationship with yourself and the world.

CONFIDENCE IN DECISION-MAKING

People often avoid making decisions out of fear of making a mistake.

Actually, the failure to make decisions is one of life's biggest mistakes.

Imagine the beggar who receives a letter saying that he's inherited a million dollars. If he doesn't read the letter, is he rich ... or not?

Similarly, God gave us the free will to make choices in life and achieve greatness. But if we're not aware of our free will, then we don't really have it. And then we wind up blaming others when things go wrong -- even though we know the decision is really up to us.

If you're not using your potential, it wears away at your confidence. Do you know what your potential is? Have you tried to use it? You have to tackle life. You haven't given up yet, have you? Let's get on with the game, with the business of really living, of not just "going through the motions."

Know the difference between "making decisions" and just floating, falling into place. Did you choose to go to college? Or perhaps you had nothing to do with the decision. Was it something you just did because you graduated high school and everybody else was doing it? Did you think it through and actually make a decision?

Imagine this private conversation of a college student:

Why am I going to college?
To get a degree.
Why?
Because I want to get into a good graduate school.
Why?
So I'll get a good job.
Why?
So I can pay back my college loans!

Through the process of questioning, he reveals a logical fault in his motivation. Really, the primary reason for going to college should be to acquire wisdom, knowledge and information. In other words, to get an education!

Now try the process yourself, using this example:

Why do I want to get married?

Don't accept pat answers. Keep asking "Why, why why?" Be frank. It's yourself. Ask any question you like. Be patient and persistent. Eventually you'll get an answer.

When you thoroughly analyze an issue, then you can make wise decisions with confidence.

Identify where you lack confidence. What makes you nervous? What situations inhibit you from being yourself? Why can't you make decisions? Is it that you don't know how to make decisions? Or that you doubt your decisions after they're made? Or you just don't feel like making decisions?

Enjoy making decisions. Deal with the world you live in. That's loving the dynamics of life.

ISOLATE YOUR BLOCKS

Anytime you find it difficult to achieve a goal, figure out what's holding you back.

Everyone has problems. Being aware of these problems is the key to getting in touch with yourself. Because as long as you don't face problems, they fester and bug you from behind.

Write your "blocks" on a piece of paper. That's a good step in the right direction. By isolating specific obstacles, you turn them into concrete challenges that require solutions.

Ask yourself:

• Am I lazy? Why?
• Am I disorganized? Why?
• Do I get angry? When?
• Why do ever I get defensive? About what?
• What makes me jealous?
• What makes me arrogant?
• Do I have trouble making decisions? Why?
• Do I lack self-discipline?
• Do I lack self-confidence?
• Why don't I take more initiative?

Negative character traits are the roots of our problems. Make a list of your negative traits, and identify when they affect you the most. Then analyze what triggers these reactions in you. Finally, formulate an effective counter-approach.

Working through this takes time. But do you have anything better to be doing right now?

READ YOUR EMOTIONS

Get in touch with your emotional state. Take a reading of how you feel. Happy? Angry? Tense? Sad? Emotions are a measuring stick for what's going on below the surface. It's like taking your temperature. If you're sick, you need to be aware so you can fix the problem.

Find out why you're upset. Who or what is pressuring you? Is it an internal or an external problem? Identify it.

Let's say you are irritated. Why?

Because the boss chewed me out.
So why am I irritated?
Because I resent him.
So what? Why does that bother me?
Because I feel I am no good.
I'm no good? He's nuts!

Get out of yourself and track it down. If you don't, it's just irritation. And the next thing you know, you'll go home and yell at your kids.

Once you've identified what causes negative feelings, adjust yourself to minimize the impact. Either avoid these situations, or prepare yourself to handle them when they arise.

Further, root out negative motivations that corrupt your behavior. Let's say that you give charity. Why? One motivation is to help humanity. Another is the pleasure of being constructive. A third is the desire to do the right thing. These are all positive motivations. A negative motivation for giving charity is: "I want people to admire me." That's corruptive.

The next time you give charity, do so anonymously. Eliminate the wrong reasons. They are destructive.

The same goes with the positive emotions. Be aware of how your emotional state affects decisions. For example, don't buy a new stereo when you're in a euphoric mood. Wait. Think it over. You are susceptible.

Pinpoint what makes you happy. You can have more joy on a daily basis by formulating some practical applications. You got up in the morning, it's a gorgeous day and you feet great. You're energized. Now take that feeling and teach yourself how to get up on the right side -- every day!

Another example: You did a good job and got the boss's compliment. Now focus: Do you need the boss to tell you did a good job? No! Create your own pleasure out of doing a good job.

GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR TWO SIDES

Everyone has an urge for greatness. We want self respect, power, fame. We want to accomplish, to be strong, to do the right thing, to even save the world.

Yet at the same time, we have a counter-urge to run away from responsibility, to get into bed and crawl under the covers.

Someone may say, "Life is beautiful," but he doesn't feel it. His emotions hold him back and he walks around going, "Ugh, life is a burden."

Recognize the volcano of conflict within you: What you truly "want," versus what you "feel" like. This is the conflict between body and soul.

Once you appreciate the dichotomy, you can identify at any moment whether your body or soul is talking. This makes it possible to live with sanity and choose the right thing.

The next step is to make peace between your two sides. The easiest way is to squash your drive to be great. But life is not about taking the easy way out. Just because you feel uncomfortable about an idea doesn't mean it's wrong for you. It's hard to break habits, and growth can be frightening.

For example, would you rather be happy or rich? Okay, you'd rather be happy. Now imagine this exchange:

"Come on, I'll teach you how to be happy. All it requires is effort and change."

"Oh, I'd love to, but I can't right now. It's impossible. I've got a flight to catch."

"Really? I'll pay you $10,000 a week to work on happiness."

"Sure! Where do I sign up?"

"Oh, but I thought you can't right now..."

We conceal our problems with rationalization: "I'll wreck my mind thinking about what life is about! Nobody really knows what life is about. It's not going to work. Nothing can be done about it anyway. I don't really care. It's not worth the time!"

The Sages say that a person only makes a mistake when overcome by a moment of insanity. So realize that you are fighting "insanity." It is not logical. You've got to be on guard. Because if you get off track, you'll pay for it down the road.

So ... do you want to change? What have you got against it? Feel the antipathy of the body. We are so darn lazy. The body just wants to sleep. "Aaaah ... I don't want to change. I'm happy enough. I'm comfortable in my niche of misery." Are you rich enough? No! So are you happy enough?

You see the importance of tracking that down? You have to identify the animal you are fighting. "The dread of change."

If you're alert, you see the enemy. You can fight it. You may lose a struggle with the body, but at least you have your confidence. "I know what I am doing."

COAX THE BODY

Get in touch with your spiritual core. Know what is driving you. Don't let free will be a subconscious thing. You want greatness. But the body says that's too much effort.

To try to convince the body, try to identify the tangible benefit. "Why is it necessary? What will it do for me?" You have to bring it home to emotional realization. "What do I lose?" What do I gain?" Only then will the idea have power. And you'll get out there and do it.

Here's the secret formula: Identify with your intellect, and coax your heart along. For example, if you're emotionally convinced of the benefit of getting into shape, then even when you break out in a cold sweat and your heart is doing palpitations, you will keep going. Because you have decided, "I want this," you know it is important.

To avoid negative backlash, your emotions have to feel comfortable with the changes you make. Learn to relax and reassure the body. Cajole the body and say, "It won't be so bad. Remember the last time you made an effort, how great you felt!" Be encouraging and reward yourself for success.

Don't say it doesn't work. You haven't made the effort. Don't give up on your intuition and perception. Just realize you haven't yet brought it home to actualization.

Consider how the basic human drives affect you: security, self-respect, honor, passions, social pressure, and possessions. Pay particularly close attention to how you accept responsibility. Let's say that you made a mistake. You want to apologize in a full and forthright manner. Yet you feel like forgetting the whole thing, hiding, running away and saying "it's not my fault."

This is the volcano. We want to be tough, dedicated and powerful -- yet we feel like being marshmallows. Choosing the path of the soul doesn't come naturally. It takes a lot of time and hard work.

KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW

Don't think that just because you understand something, you are living with it. It is possible to believe one way, and yet act another. It happens to us all the time. You can believe it's important to eat healthy food, yet gorge yourself on French fries and chocolate cake.

Our actions are determined by our level of clarity. If we understand an idea on just a superficial level, then we'll have difficulty sticking to it when the going gets tough.

Next time you go to a funeral, watch carefully. When they remove the body from the chapel, the mourners start to cry. Are they crying because they want to body to stay there?! No. All of a sudden there is a realization of death, that he won't be coming back. At the cemetery, they lower the casket into the ground and the mourners cry again. It's the emotional realization that death is final now.

Until you align your feelings with reality, you are in dreamland. Growth begins in the mind, but your heart has to buy into everything your mind discovers. Only then will you integrate these ideas into day-to-day life.

A lot of people believe in God. There are very few people who live with God. Does that make sense? You have to assimilate something that you've accepted as true. It has to become part of you.

FIVE-FINGER CLARITY

You've got to know yourself cold, just like you know your hand has five fingers. How do you know you are on the right path? How do you know you're not making a mistake right now?

To develop this clarity, articulate the important principles that guide your life. For example, in Judaism we say that love is an obligation. Is this reasonable? Work the issue through with yourself:

"Ridiculous. You can't obligate me to love."
"But if I have children, will I love them?"
"Of course I'm going to love my kids!"
"How do I know? I don't know what kind of kids I'm going to have. Maybe they'll be brats and I won't love them."
"I will. I'm obligated to love my children."

Do you see the contradiction? On an intuitive level, you know that love is an obligation. But the concept is not so clear that you can articulate it.

Take your time. Sort out the basic aspects of living. Ask yourself important questions about life's global and spiritual issues.

--?What is the meaning of existence?
--?What's good about living?
--?How do I feel about humanity?
--?What is the afterlife?
--?How do I understand good versus evil?
--?Do I have free will? How do I activate it?
--?What makes me sad? Is it okay to be sad?
--?How do I feel about God?
--?Am I proud to be a Jew?
--?How do I understand the Holocaust?

Some of these topics may be unpleasant to think about. If so, why is it unpleasant? Track it down.

Don't just use slogans to parrot things that you heard. Know why you are doing what you are doing. Otherwise, it's just society talking. You may have adopted part of society without analyzing its validity. Check it out.

Work through all the issues until you have "five-finger clarity." A human being who knows what he wants will get there. By hook or by crook. It's like a homing mechanism on a missile. If you program it right, you will get there.

WHY IS "KNOWING YOURSELF" AN INGREDIENT IN WISDOM?

• You can know truth if you look honestly into yourself.
• Emotions are powerful forces of greatness. Know them. Harness them.
• Identify your problems. It's the beginning of solving them.
• If you don't get it straight now, you're bound to make some bad mistakes.
• Don't be afraid of finding out who you really are.
• Use your free will as a conscious tool for better living.
• If you're angry or upset, track it down. What's the root?
• If you're acting illogically, at least acknowledge that to yourself!
• The key to sanity is letting truth into the body.
• You can't afford to wait too long to get to know yourself. Because you are the most fascinating person you'll ever meet.

• BS/MS/Ph.D. in computer science or a closely related field.
• Strong C/C++/Java programming skills.
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• Extensive experience with designing and programming distributed systems.
• Several years of software development experience.
• Enthusiasm for solving interesting problems.
• Fluency in English (reading and writing).

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以上这些职位要求基本上差不多。总的来说，要求真的不多！可以说只要求到有能力！比很多的公司招聘限制少多了，那些公司基本上要求什么都要精通，最好拿来就能用！这就是差距啊。当然了，要求不多并不是说要求简单，否则的话谁都可以去Google了。真正的好公司都会注重一个人的能力，潜力。比如，对软件工程师来说，编程能力必不可少，而且必须得很强才行。以前在网上看到有人说，要达到“秒杀”的境界！

当然了，Google还是要求了一些分布式方面的能力，但这些都只是作为一个plus的。唉，不知道这辈子有没有机会去Google淘金？

不过我想上面说的应该是国外吧！不知道国内的90年代OO是否风靡啊。偶是21世纪才开始接触电脑的。记得那时候老师在给我们上C++课的时候，拼命说什么C++好啊，面向对象啊，大说了一通。总之，给我的感觉是，OO才开始风靡。后来，学校里又开了一门课，叫着面向对象×××什么什么的，忘了，反正就是在讲面向对象。老师也是一个劲的给我们灌输OO思想，叫我们区别好OO与OP的差别。不知道为什么会有这么一段，可能想说国内的技术比国外的慢太多了。很多时候，其实，语言也是一种原因！毕竟国内好的翻译太少了！而且不能总是等侯杰大叔叔来翻译啊。记得以前在论坛上看到一句“名言”啊：不要看国内作者写的书，不要看国内译者翻译的书，括弧（侯杰除外）。看起来似乎有点偏激，不过却不无道理啊！很多的作者和译者都是垃圾啊！！！！偶深受其害，因为偶很爱买书（看书就。。。呵呵）。记得我去年看重构的时候，我觉得这个名词还是很新的啊，看了那本书之后才发现原来这本书写于上个世纪，昏迷啊，国内的技术太落后了。偶的e文也太落后了！要多关注关注国外的新技术。

扯远了。回来再谈OO。

OO，很早就已经学过了，很早以前就以为自己懂了，今天突然发现自己还不懂什么是OO，为什么要OO？以前的想法可能太简单了一点，认为只要是全都是对象就是OO了。

没错，在OO的思想中，所有一切东西都是O！但是，我发现在实际编程中，我连这一点都无法保证！而且，我也无法做到理论联系实际，把理论应用到实际。在实际运用中，几乎没有考虑过O的问题。更多的时候是在考虑什么模块怎么划分，一个模块应该有几个类阿，每个类都有些什么功能阿。但是我没有把那个类作为一个对象来考虑，或者说没有把那个类作为一类抽象的对象来考虑。需要什么东西就直接往里面加。不管加的东西跟那个类有没有关系，都往里面塞！行为相当恶劣。简直就是OP啊，每个类都成了一组function的wrapper了，相当悲哀！不管function是否应该属于该类（或者说该对象）。搞不好什么时候就设计出个：一个人有爬的行为！（结果肯定会被一群人狂揍哦）。

OO有什么优点呢？为什么要OO？

OO使人们得变成与实际的世界更加接近，所有的对象被赋予属性和方法，结果编程就更加富有人性化。

维护简单，模块化是面向对象编程中的一个特征。实体被表示为类和同一名字空间中具有相同功能的类，我们可以在名字空间中添加一个类而不会影响该名字空间的其他成员。

可扩充性，面向对象编程从本质上支持扩充性。如果有一个具有某种功能的类，就可以很快地扩充这个类，创建一个具有扩充的功能的类。

代码重用，由于功能是被封装在类中的，并且类是作为一个独立实体而存在的，提供一个类库就非常简单了。事实上，任何一个.NET Framework编程语言的程序员都可以使用.NET Framework类库，.NET Framework类库提供了很多的功能。更令人高兴的是，我们可以通过提供符合需求的类来扩充这些功能。

在实际的编程中你有考虑过这些问题吗？Sorry，偶是没有考虑过。基本上是，维护很难！扩充相对较容易，因为直接拷贝过来，在修改（这有算是OO吗？显然否）。这种根本就是没有利用到面向对象中的重用性。扩充起来也不容易，需要什么功能就胡乱继承一通，搞得类的层次太多了，无形之中给后人维护带来了极大的困难。出现这些情况的原因是什么呢？前面的代码设计的不够好。面向对象的三大特点：封装，继承和多态有没有都考虑进来？面向对象是一种思想，是我们考虑事情的方法，通常表现为我们是将问题的解决按照过程方式来解决呢，还是将问题抽象为一个对象来解决它。很多情况下，我们会不知不觉的按照过程方式来解决它，而不是考虑将要解决问题抽象为对象去解决它。有些人打着面向对象的幌子，干着过程编程的勾当。

OOA呢？OO对A有什么帮助呢？

OOA的主要优点

·         加强了对问题域和系统责任的理解；

·         改进与分析有关的各类人员之间的交流；

·         对需求的变化具有较强的适应性；

·         支持软件复用。

·         贯穿软件生命周期全过程的一致性。

·         实用性；

·         有利于用户参与。

OOA方法的基本步骤
 
在用OOA具体地分析一个事物时，大致上遵循如下五个基本步骤：
第一步，确定对象和类。这里所说的对象是对数据及其处理方式的抽象，它反映了系统保存和处理现实世界中某些事物的信息的能力。类是多个对象的共同属性和方法集合的描述，它包括如何在一个类中建立一个新对象的描述。

第二步，确定结构（structure）。结构是指问题域的复杂性和连接关系。类成员结构反映了泛化-特化关系，整体-部分结构反映整体和局部之间的关系。

第三步，确定主题（subject）。主题是指事物的总体概貌和总体分析模型。

第四步，确定属性（attribute）。属性就是数据元素，可用来描述对象或分类结构的实例，可在图中给出，并在对象的存储中指定。

第五步，确定方法（method）。方法是在收到消息后必须进行的一些处理方法：方法要在图中定义，并在对象的存储中指定。对于每个对象和结构来说，那些用来增加、修改、删除和选择一个方法本身都是隐含的（虽然它们是要在对象的存储中定义的，但并不在图上给出），而有些则是显示的。

OO是个好东西啊。要理解OO的思想，并能够在实际中运用它。不过OO现在已经不是最热的了，在现在web2.0的年代，基于网页上的应用会更火啊。你开发个软件，如果是单机版的，你都不好意思说！如果是C/S架构的，你也是会被BS的。呵呵。现在什么SOA，AJAX那个火 啊！SOA是service oriented architecture，AJAX是什么东东？中间件、CRP、CPM等等，现在也是牛一B啊。学无止尽，学不能晒网啊；跟上时代的脚步，对新技术保持必要的触觉。恩。

以上纯属胡言乱语，部分摘自网上。如果有兴趣，偶欢迎大家一起来讨论啊。

所以真正的软件高手，他并不满足于他的代码能有效地工作了，他认为编程是艺术，并醉心于其中。在低手能写出一个版本的时间里，他已经写出了第十版。其品质当然不可同日而语。就象一个九段棋手，在给定的时间里，他能计算十种可能，并将每种可能计算到100手之后，从中选择一种最有利的下法。低手岂有苟全的机会？

在成为高手的路上，要有热情，要循序渐进，要持之以恒。

要靠自己，学很多别人怕学的东西。


偶的目标就是要成为一名软件高手。恩。

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　第五级:技术工人，技术精湛，熟悉行业知识但领导能力欠加，此类人大多为系分人员或

资深程序员，基本上桀骜不逊，自视清高，不愿于一般技术人员为伍，在论坛上基本以高手面目出现。

　第六级:熟练工人，技术有广度无深度，喜欢钻研但浅尝辄止。此类人大多为老程序员，

其中一部分喜欢利用工具去查找网上有漏洞的服务器，干点坏事以获取成绩感。如果心情好，在论坛上他们会回答菜鸟的大部分问题。此级别为软件业苦力的重要组成部分。

　第七级:工人，某些技术较熟练但缺乏深度和广度，此类人大多为程序员级别，经常在论

坛上提问偶尔也回答菜鸟的问题。为软件产业苦力的主要组成部分。

　第八级:菜鸟，入门时间不长，在论坛上会反复提问很初级的问题，有一种唐僧的精神。

虽然招人烦但基本很可爱。只要认真钻研，一两年后就能升级到上一层。

　第九级:大忽悠，利用中国教育的弊病，顶着一顶高学历的帽子，在小公司里混个软件部

经理，设计不行，代码不行，只会胡乱支配下属，拍领导马屁，在领导面前胡吹海侃，把自己打扮成技术高手的模样。把勾心斗角的办公室文化引入技术部门，实在龌龊!

　第十级:驴或傻X，会写SELECT语句就说自己精通ORALCE，连寄存器有几种都不知道就说自己懂汇编，建议全部送到日本当IT产业工人，挣了日本人的钱还严重打击日本的软件业!

　其中又以前两级和后两级最为难得，其余级别只要努力，皆有可能达到。

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不过我发挥得不太好，太紧张了！其实本人的实力还是很强的，至少公司里的那么多的高手中，没有觉得很害怕的（当然了，输是肯定的，呵呵）。不知道自己为什么会紧张！这种事情老是发生，可能跟个性有关系吧，偶太内向了一点，做事情太没有魄力了。这个以后要加强阿！

不过总的来说还是很开心的，夺冠了，也猜中了最终的比分。而且最后一局的战术布局很成功（都是俺的功劳，嘿嘿）。

虽然夺冠了，可惜偶得发挥还是太差了，主要是因为太没自信了，太容易紧张了！以后这方面要加强阿。羽毛球比赛只是娱乐，大家玩得开心就好啊。 Just for fun ！生活中也是这样子的，放松的态度去面对一切，光有热忱还是不够的。恩。

3.吃苦耐劳.

不要怕吃苦.在创业阶段,我们要的是名气,是经验,有时候在保本的情况下可以以低价策略来和别人竞争.我们出卖的是点脑力活,力气活,年轻人,睡一觉起来什么都恢复了.

4.目标.

生活要有目标,不仅仅是事业(赚钱)的目标,其他方面也要有目标,如爱情方面的目标,健康方面的目标.家庭方面的目标.各个目标都要重视.只赚了钱,不算人生的成功.

5.虚心学习.

多与比自己大的人(长辈)/成功人事.交流学习,要虚心听取/认真分析他们的意见和建议,一面自己以后走弯路.
6.了解社会.

多了解社会.多实践.多分析某些社会现象的因果厉害关系.认真分析身边发生某些事情. 正视社会的阴暗面.分析社会上某些不良风气,不要清高自傲.也不要随波逐流.某些时候半事情,也需要这方面的帮助.

7.自由.
出来外面做事情,关键是自由,愉快,能学到知识.每走一步都要分析,不要因某一小点利益限制了自己的自由.

8.计划.

给自己定一个五年计划,十年规划.每季度做什么事情,每个月做什么事情.甚至每天做什么事情,有个计划,有个目标比较好.不要每天混混恶恶.几年后你会发现,几年来一直没有目标,什么也没有做成.

9.胆量.

你是工人的子弟,或是农民的儿子.难免思想狭隘.不要盲目.盲从.也不要胆小怕事.多锻炼,大胆去做事情,只要不违法.大胆去做.即使失败了,也为下次积累经验."商场如战场",这句话一点不假.想想,在战场上,不是你死就是我亡.

10. 谋略.
人生活在社会上,就是要用自己的智慧谋略和别人都智斗勇.即使有时你不想和别人斗,别人也要和你争.既然不能退让,何不争一争.古往今来,某些人的 成功,不是电视小说里说的那么偶然的.有其必然性.生活中不玩点小技巧(犯法的不做.害人的不做).哪能那么容易就成功.

11.不要害怕贫穷.

也许你家里没有几十万是百万.大胆的去做事情,不要怕贫穷.即使我们事情做失败了,我们大不了回到起点.还是穷人.
12.学习.

不断充实自己.学习新的知识.多学点技能.为以后作准备.也可作为以后的娱乐消遣.如:驾驶技术,炒菜做饭,毛笔字等.

13.惜时.
如果以上你都做了,我估计你的时间过得很快.我常听某某人说:"这一辈子,就象昨天今天一样.",毛泽东说:"天地转,光阴迫.一万年太久,只争朝夕."."三是八年过去弹指一挥间.",不要因碌碌无为而悔恨!!!