﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"><channel><title>C++博客-Oo缘来是你oO-随笔分类-生活感悟</title><link>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/category/2286.html</link><description>&lt;br&gt;
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人本是人，不必刻意去做人；世本是世，无须精心去处世；自然的才是快乐的。
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						<font face="Verdana" size="2">本文内容来自网络，但不知道原创和出处<br /><br /></font>
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<img src ="http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/aggbug/13893.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/" target="_blank">马嘉楠</a> 2006-10-20 11:46 <a href="http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/10/20/13893.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item><item><title>生活感悟</title><link>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10172.html</link><dc:creator>马嘉楠</dc:creator><author>马嘉楠</author><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jul 2006 14:14:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10172.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/comments/10172.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10172.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/comments/commentRss/10172.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/services/trackbacks/10172.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">辛辛苦苦,过舒服日子;<br />舒舒服服,过辛苦日子!</font>
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<img src ="http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/aggbug/10172.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/" target="_blank">马嘉楠</a> 2006-07-17 22:14 <a href="http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10172.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item><item><title>厚道</title><link>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10147.html</link><dc:creator>马嘉楠</dc:creator><author>马嘉楠</author><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jul 2006 01:13:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10147.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/comments/10147.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/archive/2006/07/17/10147.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/comments/commentRss/10147.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.cppblog.com/majianan/services/trackbacks/10147.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">锲诃夫说：有教养不是吃饭不洒汤，是别人洒汤的时候别去看他。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">有一个相似的美国俗语说：犯过错不是稀奇的事，稀奇的是别人犯错的时候别去讥笑他。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">“别去看他”和“别去讥笑他”是一种做人风范，在中国叫做“厚道”。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚道不是方法，虽然也可以当方法训练自己。它是人的本性。厚道之于人，是在什么也没做之中做了很大的事情，锲诃夫称之为“教养”。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">如果美德分为显性与隐性，厚道具有隐性特征。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚道不是愚钝，很多时候像愚钝。所谓“贵人话语迟”，迟在对一个人一件事的评价沉着，君子讷于言。尤其在别人蒙羞之际，“迟”的评价保全了别人的面子。真正的愚钝是不明曲直，而厚道乃是明白而又心存善良，以宽怀给别人一个补救的机会。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚道者能沉得住气。厚道不一定得到厚道的回报，但厚道之为厚道就在不图回报，随他去。急功近利的人远离厚道。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">在人际交往上，厚道是基石。它并非一时一事的犀利，是别人经过回味的赞赏。处世本无方法，也总有一些高明超越方法，那就是品格。品格可以发光，方法只是工具。厚道是经得起考验的高尚品格。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚道是冰水深层的劲流，它有力量，但表面不起波浪。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚道的人有主张。和稀泥，做好人，是乖巧之表现，与“厚”无关。无准则，无界限，是糊涂之表现，与“道”无关。</font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚道的人也有可能倔强，也可能不入俗流，宁可憨，而不巧。 </font>
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								<font face="Verdana" size="2">厚，是长麦子的土壤之厚，墙体挡风之厚。厚德尔后载物，做人达到这样的境界，已然得道。 </font>
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